Arguing

It’s impossible to argue with a good listener. When someone says something inflammatory let that be your cue. Your cue to get curious. 

Say… 

“Tell me more.”

“What gives you that impression?”

Try repeating back what they said and adding to their point. Over time, they will often soften their extreme statement. Encourage the bloviation and listen for them to talk themselves off the ledge. The bloviator will love you for it.

If you want to cement someone’s extreme position… Argue with them.