Defensiveness

Allow your snap defensiveness to be a clue. A clue that your identity is misplaced.

“If I do good, then I am good.”

“If they like me, then I’m likeable.”

“If I have it, then I’m valuable.”

“If I control it, then I’m safe.”

“Because that awful thing happened to me, I am the victim from now on.”

The source of most defensiveness is misplaced identity. We all have limiting beliefs, but they don’t have to hold us back. The quick path to a new frame is to find a firm, stable identity. You must acknowledge the core sense of who you are and what you are worth can only come from a soul connected to the creator.

The black hole in your chest will yearn but never be satisfied until you do. 

I checked.