Need Some Help…
When you ask someone for help and they end up making a mess of things… one of two things is likely going on.
They don’t really want to help ( think teenage kids…)
They didn’t understand the request...even though you made yourself “perfectly clear”
The outcome is fuzzy… fuzzy with less than optimal results.
Parting Thought: Maybe your bid for help was fuzzy. People can’t read your mind.