Nothing Nice to Say

Being right and kind at the same time is a struggle. It’s a struggle because the rightness is relieving to our ego. It’s validating to our world view and in our minds, “must be revealed.”

Besides, the truth will set them free. Right?

Allowing your version of “right” to marinate in silence is usually a move you won’t regret. Allowing the silence to re-orient you to a kinder frame will keep you from being an asshole.