Sheet 3
Take out 3 sheets of paper. Find a quiet spot. Create the context of 3 buckets in your mind: Health, Wealth, Relationships
Sheet 1: List all the things in your life that are working.
Sheet 2: List all the things in your life that are not working
Sheet 3: List all the changes you want to make to perpetuate Sheet 1 and minimize Sheet 2
Add action points to your calendar.
Pro Tip: Ruminating on the “uncontrollable” will cause you misery… I checked.