It’s Your Fault…

Blame never ends well. It feels like a shortcut to relief when things are falling apart. Surely it isn’t our fault when things go bad. 

When you put a ball firmly in someone else’s court you’ve removed your power. When you blame someone you’ve given up your control. 

You have to wait. You have to wait because you put the ball in their court by blaming. Years can go by if they walk off the court. 

If we blame, we remove our valuable opportunity for growth and change. 

Not wanting growth and change? Enjoy the waiting game…

Pro Tip: It’s worth noting that personal responsibility doesn’t equate fault.