Assert
Asserting yourself in a situation gets all sorts of reactions.
People often don’t like it for a couple of reasons.
Sometimes it’s because you lacked awareness of the situation. Maybe you had a weak moment and forced something that shouldn’t be forced.
Sometimes people get upset by your assertiveness because they don’t feel like they can be assertive. They don’t think they have the right to express themselves so why should you? They will often choose to accuse you of being aggressive or crazy.
Being a formidable character who isn’t afraid to express yourself carries some responsibility. You want to avoid causing a wake that drowns others but is one they can handle. Not much happens in the world without some confidence to kick the door down. People aren’t going to like it.
Being a jerk and being effective is a tightrope. Surround yourself with effective people who can show you the difference. Walking on eggshells will keep you stuck.
“Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far” -T. Roosevelt
