Don’t Judge Me

If you see a friend make bad choices what is your role?  Leave him be?  Who are you to judge?  

Being afraid of judging is understandable. Judgment is important though.  It’s important because turning a blind eye isn’t loving.  We all make judgment calls every day.  When your buddy isn’t using good judgment you should warn him.  Let him know it kills you to see him going down the wrong path.  

If he gets angry with you and 1shames you for “judging” him it’s a sign.  A sign to let it go. You are wasting your breath.  He is choosing his path over personal growth or curiosity.  

Your pearls are too valuable for swine.