Expectations

Expectations are worth having.  

Some say lower them to reduce disappointment. If you or they fall short, no biggie. Seems reasonable at first glance but in the end becomes a race to the bottom.

Some say they are fine as long as they are “reasonable.” We all know how subjective “reasonable” can be. Reasonable compared to what?

Having high expectations of others can elevate performance because they don’t want to disappoint. If you know they are people pleasers it makes you manipulative. 

Expectations can be good and bad and are ultimately complicated.

Pro Tip: Be very careful about what you SILENTLY expect of others. 

Uncommunicated expectations are actually premeditated resentments…