Keep Googling?

Is whiskey good for a cold? Is the world flat? Should you spank your kids? Should you invest in stocks? Should you get a divorce? 

Google it and you’ll find the answer you’re after. It’s worth admitting the answer is laced with cognitive bias. 

When our actions/thoughts disagree with our beliefs we tend to justify our choices. If we get negative feedback our knee jerk is to defend. This is dangerous because our internal narrative can blind us to the truth. 

Many times we aren’t able to see our mistakes… much less own them. Seeing and owning are two of the hardest things about growth. 

If you don’t feel like growing you can always justify your position if you google something long enough.