You Screening My Calls?
Behavior is a language…if they’re an emotionally integrated person and don’t pick up your call they are communicating something to you. Perhaps they are saying:
I’m in the middle of something and can’t pick up
If I pick up it will take forever to hang up and I don’t have the energy for it
If I do pick up and tell them I’m in the middle of something they will likely get their feelings hurt
This filter happens every day all around us. If you’re getting screened it might be on you.
Here’s how you know…
If you’ve ever said ”I tried calling you but you never pick up” or “I’ve been trying to reach you, where have you been?” It’s definitely on you.
Allow this victim mentality to be your cue. Your cue to remember that behavior is a language.