Self Love

There is a ton of chatter on the web about self love.  You have to love yourself, take care of yourself, don’t forget about yourself.  While this is true in some respects, becoming the center of your own universe is a direct path to misery.

Self centeredness is a natural human condition that manifests itself in unexpected ways. For example, if you’re proudly focused on others and find yourself resenting them when they don’t reciprocate… it could be a sign of over loving yourself

Everyone wants to be liked but making it your focus robs your happiness.  Misery assaults you when you strive for approval.   The world revolves around “self” when your mental state hinges on acceptance. It’s an empty pursuit. 

The more time you spend thinking about yourself the more unhappy you become.  Being selfless is good but thinking of yourself less is probably better.

Pro Tip: For more joy..focus on your Maker way before you meet Him.